“It’s a thousand times harder to come back than to become.”
When I read that line in Cher’s memoir, it felt like a meditation on reinvention. I immediately noted it in my journal.
I finished Cher: The Memoir, Part One, while recovering from a cold this past week. I found myself deep in the chapter detailing her financial troubles with then-husband Sonny Bono. Despite the hit songs and worldwide touring, Sonny had mismanaged their money. They were flat broke and owed the IRS $270,000 in back taxes.
Not to give away too much of the comeback story, because I highly recommend you read my Taurus sister’s book, but eventually, we arrive at The Cher Show.
I became a Cher fan from Sonny & Cher reruns on TV Land as a kid, but I had no idea she had her own show. Naturally, I had to watch it. The 1975 series premiere featured Elton John, Flip Wilson, and Bette Midler. It was truly a star-studded affair. Of course, it was complete with iconic Bob Mackie gowns, including the one below from the opening number.
What moved me most was her tenacity and her commitment to create, even when circumstances appeared bleak.
Tenacity inspires me in every form. It is why I love memoirs, autobiographies, and biographies from people of all backgrounds.
These stories remind us that reinvention is universal. We may not share identities or life experiences, but we all understand resilience. Stories across the full spectrum of the human experience continually impact me, and Cher’s was no different.
Have you read a memoir recently that inspired you? Would love your recommendations.
Until Next Sunday,
Calyssa